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How a Broken Heart Got Me Hired (Cheesy)

Kyle Mau · October 2026 · 2 minute read

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Short stories and sharp lessons about hiring, management, and building teams — from the Founder of HireUA.

I once told a hiring manager about my first girlfriend breaking up with me.

In a job interview.

For a six-figure position at Hitachi Data Systems.

She’d broken my heart, so I threw myself into cycling.

Started racing. Got into triathlons. Eventually won two of them.

I told the whole story.

The breakup. The bike. The races.

And they hired me.

I didn’t give them some sanitized bullshit about a time I “overcame adversity in a cross-functional environment.”

I told them something REAL.

And in about 2 minutes, they learned I could handle hardship, do difficult things, and turn something lousy into something positive.

Now, that’s not a typical answer.

But here’s the thing:

Most interviews never give a candidate the chance to answer like that.

There are a lot of very good candidates out there. Your questions just don’t let them show it.

“Name a time you dealt with hardship” is a simple question. Most people give you a boring answer. Once in a while, someone like me turns it into a story you remember for years.

Not to toot my own horn too much. But that’s maybe the top 1% of the top 1%.

And you don’t always need that.

If you’re hiring a basic admin, an operations person, or an editor who isn’t designing strategy, you don’t need to be dazzled.

But you do need a way for the right one to stand out from the pile.

The truth is this:

Good questions work both ways.

When a candidate walks out saying “that was one of the most interesting interviews I’ve ever done,” you’ve just told an A-player what kind of company you run.

Ask better questions, and you attract better people.

So design questions that let people show you what they’ve got. That they’re an A-player. That they fit your company.

That’s exactly what we build at HireUA, for every company and every role.

If you want help designing your interview process, book a call with us:

https://Hire-UA.com

Kyle Mau
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Kyle Mau

Founder, HireUA

I moved to Ukraine in 2016 and built internet businesses from Eastern Europe. My first hires there changed how I work, and by 2021 that lesson had turned into a small recruiting business that became HireUA. Since then we’ve made 1,100+ placements across 40+ countries and saved clients an estimated $100M+ in payroll. I’m a member of EO (Entrepreneurs’ Organization) and the former EO Staffing & Recruiting industry lead.

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